Your online choices matter - here's why...
Social media is stitched into the fabric of daily life. We scroll, post, share, react – it all feels instinctive. But that ease can be deceptive.
A single post, photo, or video might seem harmless in the moment, but the impact can spread fast and far. Being responsible online isn’t about self-censorship – it invites us to be aware of potential consequences to ourselves and others.
One key area to be cautious about is posting content that involves other people. Whether it’s a group photo or a casual mention in a caption, once something is online, it’s no longer just yours. Even on a private account, content can be screenshot, saved, and shared beyond your control.
A simple rule to keep in mind: if the post includes someone else, get their consent first. This applies especially when the situation is sensitive or potentially embarrassing.
Recording and sharing videos adds another layer of complexity. Even if you feel what you’re posting is “in the public interest”, that doesn’t mean you’re free from responsibility. Public interest is not the same as personal opinion. It’s a legal and ethical standard, not a justification for putting someone at risk or fuelling gossip.
In Malaysia, there are laws that address how we use digital platforms – particularly when it comes to content that could cause offence, harm, or distress to others. Sharing something that seems like “raising awareness” can still cross a line if it ends up humiliating, misleading, or harassing someone. It’s worth remembering that your intention doesn’t always match the impact – but the impact is what matters most.
Tip: If you wouldn’t want someone to film and upload you in the same situation, don’t do it to someone else.
We also need to be careful with commentary on what we see or hear about others online. It’s easy to react to a story or a post with a quick opinion or joke. But online, those words stick. We might not know the full context – and assumptions can lead to real harm. If someone’s being discussed widely online, consider: does my comment add anything helpful? Is it based on fact? Could it hurt someone whose situation I don’t fully understand?
A common myth is that your social media page is a private space – like a diary or chat with friends. It’s not. These platforms are publishing platforms, and the content is often far more public than we imagine. Privacy settings can be bypassed with a screenshot. Something meant for a few eyes can easily end up in the hands of many.
Tip: Post like you’re being watched by your future employer, your parents, or a journalist. If it would be awkward to explain in five years, consider not posting the content.
That said, social media isn’t something to fear. It can be funny, inspiring, creative, and prosocial. But it works best when it’s used with intention. Here are a few practical reminders:
- Pause before posting, especially when emotions are running high.
- Ask permission before tagging or sharing content that includes others.
- Avoid sharing private information or speculation about other people’s lives.
- Think of your account as public – even if it’s set to private.
- Understand your local laws around online harm and digital responsibility.
Being mindful of our social media use doesn't ruin the experience – it protects it. Social media can be a force for connection and creativity, but once something is out there, it’s hard to take back. Always think before your post.
